Curiosity

Dr. Todd Kashdan, an Associate Professor at George Mason University asked and attempted to answer a monumental question we have all grappled with at some time or another: What is essential in creating a fulfilling life?

Among his answers were strategies for coping with an uncertain world. Being able to navigate ambiguity and the ability to adapt to the demands that different situations impose upon us, a concept he calls “psychological flexibility”.
The prime mover behind all of this, the catalyst that compels us to engage in the other behaviors happens to also be the title of his excellent book: Curious?
Curiosity is a trait that too many adults have long ago packed away in their toy box. Kids are naturally curious, they engage in the world around them and are enthralled by the possibilities. There is a threshold some people cross in their life that strips them of this trait. Sometimes, in the rush to adulthood, in our eagerness to pick up adult things and discard childish things we make a mistake. We get it backwards. Unstructured play, doodling, daydreaming and following a creek because you just want to know where it ends up are left behind. Mistake.

“The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere of activity in which we are permitted to remain children all our lives.”
-?

Great scientists, teachers and entrepreneurs are insanely curious. Childlike. There is a popular belief that some of the greats became successful in their field despite seeming completely naive and unsophisticated. I think it is probably more often the case that an individuals wonder and highly developed curiosity strategies are the major reason for their great success. It is not surprising that one of the twentieth centuries greatest minds was quoted as saying:

“The search for truth is more precious than its possession.”
-?

Curiosity was once heralded as a great vice. Curiosity killed the cat it is said and even Saint Augustine wrote that before creating the heavens and the earth, God “fashioned hell for the inquisitive”. Being curious is indeed a dangerous thing as it awakens a part of you that is not satisfied with the status quo.

Curiosity is one of the great secrets of living a wealthy life as well. Being interested in financial independence, investing, tax strategies and entrepreneurship will make you financially literate. Being curious about these things will make you wealthy. Being interested in charity can put food on someones table. Being curious about how to really make a positive impact can change a persons life.

Dr. Kashdan also asserts that in order to create a fulfilling life we need to discover our strengths, values and what we are passionate about. Put another way, we need to find out bliss and follow it.

“I have no special gift – I am only passionately curious”
-?

Are you curious about who was quoted in this article? (hint: all three quotes are from the same person)

What are your passions? What is your bliss?

Take some time and figure this stuff out for your own life. These are truly the things that make life worthwhile.

I also recommend picking up a copy of Curious? It is an excellent book.

-WR

What is your passion? What is your bliss? Please leave a comment and share.

How to Follow Your Bliss

It is no secret that I am a fan of the late Joseph Campbell. My book adheres closely to his concept of a monomyth. I do not pretend to be an expert on the subject matter that so fascinates me. I consider myself a student and will always be one. Comparative mythology studies the myths that people live by. It is as much concerned with paleolithic cave drawings as it is with modern middle eastern strife. The breadth is staggering. With our big brains and our assorted accoutrements of modern life it is easy to forget how closely linked we are to our rich mythological past.  While there is an anthropological slant to many of the approaches I have studied, Joseph Campbell brings passion and more than a little dramatic flair to his chosen life-work.  We all live by a myth, this is our personal story, our personal narrative. Sometimes this is a part of a larger worldview as in the case of membership in one of the great world religions. Sometimes we try to find our way by other means.

Joseph Campbell used to like to say “mythology is referred to as other peoples religion and that “religion is simply misunderstood or misinterpreted mythology“. He felt that the emphasis on the historicity of religious texts often got in the way of the spiritual message. While many people get caught up on both sides of the fence trying to either prove or disprove a finite act of religion, trying to tie a religious event to a real historic place, date or person, I believe that it is the abiding, guiding message that matters most in our lives. For example, flood myths preceded the Bible by many centuries. Deucalion of Greek myth was the son of Prometheus and Pronoia. Pelasgians were the neolithic culture that preceded the greeks and the story goes that Zeus let loose a heavy rain, the rivers swelled and the seas rose. Deucalion and his dad Prometheus built an ark and was saved from the deluge. Noah and the Sumerian Xisuthros are both heroes of the same myth, the same story. There are strikingly similar stories in the Koran, in China,  in Aboriginal Australia and even with the North American Indian tribe the Menominee. These stories hint at both a universal threat of flood on the ancient world stage and the need for humans to mythologize about it. Our shared stories and ritual bring order out of chaos and help us relate to each other in meaningful ways. We destroy these relationships when we throw out the story and the ritual and instead cling simply to the historical vessel that carried them.

Any of Joseph Campbell’s densely academic books require dedication and commitment to thoroughly absorb. Among his pantheon of wisdom regarding comparative mythology he states that one needs to follow their bliss in order to live a fulfilling life. It is the history of the world as seen through the eyes of the great story tellers that bind us all together and in that vein Campbell drew heavily on the Hindu Upanishads to form his belief on this subject. Earlier, both  Ralph Waldo Emerson and Henry David Thoreau espoused transcendentalism as a kind of personal mythology.

I try to view Campbell’s admonition within the scope of his greater body of work. He seemed to firmly believe that we are all intrinsically connected. We all share a common background that reaches back far beyond recorded history might suggest. The roots of the human condition dig deeper than many of feel comfortable admitting. Despite our apparent differences we all share a closely held need to help others. Our bliss is a reflection of that.

Another way of saying follow your bliss could be to follow that which holds you in rapture, that which arrests your soul. It is imperative for us to define our purpose in life and get to the business of following our bliss. Your bliss takes you by the hand and pulls you where you’ve always wanted to go but were afraid to tread there yourself.

What is my bliss?


What draws you forth?

What would you gladly do for free if your bills were paid and you had no obligations?

Imagine that after you die, there is a giant brass plaque erected in your honor…What would you like it to say?

In the ceremony, the great mayor of the city gives a speech in your honor…What does he say about your life, your contribution?

What does your family say?

To follow your bliss is to do what you are.

To follow your bliss is to help others with the gifts you were given, the skills you acquired and all the strength you can summon.

Write a one-page plan on how to follow your own bliss.

please comment

Welcome to WorthWild.net

Glad you stopped by.

Within the walls of this blog we will be taking a sometimes unorthodox approach to financial independence. We’ll look at wealth not as an end-goal but as a truly sustainable lifestyle.

First a definition:

Financial Independence: Living on the income generated by the semi-automatic streams you have established.

Q. What are ‘semi-automatic streams’ ?

A. Besides a good name for a rock band (this marks my first homage to Dave Barry), semi-automatic streams of income include dividends from your investments, profit from your business or royalty payments from a creative work. All of these require substantial initial effort but usually minimal ongoing attention.

WorthWild’s tagline is “Financial Independence on your terms” and I hope I can live up to this lofty Ideal. Achieving Financial Independence is hard. Anything worthwhile usually is. It takes dedication, sacrifice and humility but I think you’ll agree it is well worth it.

One important thing to note is that everyone has a different dollar amount that represents their threshold for financial independence. The more frugal you are, the faster you’ll get there. Period. This is why frugality constitutes a significant focus of this blog.

In the posts that follow we’ll revisit this definition and refine it for our purposes…