Dr. Todd Kashdan, an Associate Professor at George Mason University asked and attempted to answer a monumental question we have all grappled with at some time or another: What is essential in creating a fulfilling life?
Among his answers were strategies for coping with an uncertain world. Being able to navigate ambiguity and the ability to adapt to the demands that different situations impose upon us, a concept he calls “psychological flexibility”.
The prime mover behind all of this, the catalyst that compels us to engage in the other behaviors happens to also be the title of his excellent book: Curious?
Curiosity is a trait that too many adults have long ago packed away in their toy box. Kids are naturally curious, they engage in the world around them and are enthralled by the possibilities. There is a threshold some people cross in their life that strips them of this trait. Sometimes, in the rush to adulthood, in our eagerness to pick up adult things and discard childish things we make a mistake. We get it backwards. Unstructured play, doodling, daydreaming and following a creek because you just want to know where it ends up are left behind. Mistake.
“The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere of activity in which we are permitted to remain children all our lives.”
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Great scientists, teachers and entrepreneurs are insanely curious. Childlike. There is a popular belief that some of the greats became successful in their field despite seeming completely naive and unsophisticated. I think it is probably more often the case that an individuals wonder and highly developed curiosity strategies are the major reason for their great success. It is not surprising that one of the twentieth centuries greatest minds was quoted as saying:
“The search for truth is more precious than its possession.”
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Curiosity was once heralded as a great vice. Curiosity killed the cat it is said and even Saint Augustine wrote that before creating the heavens and the earth, God “fashioned hell for the inquisitive”. Being curious is indeed a dangerous thing as it awakens a part of you that is not satisfied with the status quo.
Curiosity is one of the great secrets of living a wealthy life as well. Being interested in financial independence, investing, tax strategies and entrepreneurship will make you financially literate. Being curious about these things will make you wealthy. Being interested in charity can put food on someones table. Being curious about how to really make a positive impact can change a persons life.
Dr. Kashdan also asserts that in order to create a fulfilling life we need to discover our strengths, values and what we are passionate about. Put another way, we need to find out bliss and follow it.
“I have no special gift – I am only passionately curious”
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Are you curious about who was quoted in this article? (hint: all three quotes are from the same person)
What are your passions? What is your bliss?
Take some time and figure this stuff out for your own life. These are truly the things that make life worthwhile.
I also recommend picking up a copy of Curious? It is an excellent book.
-WR
What is your passion? What is your bliss? Please leave a comment and share.

